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[–]just_lesbian_things 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

It's easier said than done, but is it possible for you to find better friends? There doesn't even have to be a falling out, you can slowly move to greener pastures over time. Do you have any hobbies you would like to cultivate? You're influenced by the people around you, and quite frankly, I think you can find better influences than a bunch of ridiculous women who waste their time LARPing and obsessing over identity politics. There are women out there with more substance to their character, I promise.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'm an early 20s person in the most liberal city in America, I'm telling you it's not as easy as just finding new friends. Everyone is like this here.

[–]just_lesbian_things 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm in my 20s in a liberal city too, and I found most of my friends online. It's not easy and it's not going to get any easier. Good friends and compatible people are never easy to find. Look into cultivating your hobbies first. Find People who have more meaningful things to say besides what "gender" they currently feel like or what dumb shit they're parroting off social media. Or be okay with being alone. Otherwise, your actions will be dictated by other people always.