The woman in that video's haircut, clothing and overall "gender presentation" looks exactly like most of the (almost entirely heterosexual) women in the new mothers' support group I attended in 1991 - right down to the cut of the high-waisted and factory-faded "mom jeans," LOL. The only difference is that many of us had hair that was a whole lot shorter. But funny thing was, no one ever questioned our sex or considered us to be other than women. And we certainly didn't think our comfortable, practical clothing and can't-be-bothered-coz-too-sleep-deprived-and-baby-is-wailing grooming style meant we were edgy, cool, outré rebels. On the contrary, most of us felt like that the act of becoming moms meant we were sell-outs who'd caved to conformity and betrayed the values of our second-wave feminist, punk and new-wave era youth.

BTW, in the 1970s, the cut of the jeans was different, but lots of ordinary women of all sexualities who weren't seen (in their own eyes or the eyes of others) as at all butch customarily wore jeans and oversized plaid (often flannel) shirts, either unbuttoned with a T-shirt like the woman in this vid, or buttoned-up alone. Depending on the weather, our everyday footwear tended to be hiking boots, "chukka boots," wellies, Doc Martens, cowboy boots, snow or rain boots from places like LL Bean, sneakers, super-ugly Clarks shoes like Wallabies, wooden clogs or some kind of sandals or flip-flops.

In the mid-late 1960s and 70s, lots of girls and women of all sexualities wore jeans made for males - like Levis 501s with the button fly - too. IIRC, we bought these in men's or "unisex" shops. In the US, girls and women also commonly wore a bunch of clothes made for men that we bought in Army-Navy surplus stores, such US Navy-issue pea coats, green army jackets, wool sailor pants with a flap double rows of buttons instead of a fly, down-filled jackets with fur-trimmed hoods meant for soldiers in cold climates, GI T-shirts and socks, sailor shirts and so on.