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[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

My partner is non binary, honestly their answer is exactly like everyone elses "I dont feel male or female" but we've had a lot of conversations about gender roles and things like that and they've admitted it has a lot to do with gender roles. In the east in the country I grew up in there are no real gender roles tbh so all my gay and lesbian friends just see their sex as their sex and how they live their life is according to no expectations. They understand that I think gender is a massive social construct that encourages gender roles.

[–]slushpilot 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

"I dont feel male or female"

I never understood what this means. How do people come to believe this is some kind of feeling that you're expected to have? We don't say this about any of our other physical attributes...

[–]vijfkeervier 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

In the r/movies discussion on Page there was a heavily upvoted post where someone tried to explain what feeling non-binary is by comparing it to liking Star Wars: some people hate Star Wars, some people love it and in the middle you've got people who sort of like it or have never seen it - and those are non-binary. Lots of comments on how helpful that post was, lol.

[–]slushpilot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So assuming I haven't watched Star Wars I'm still expected to have an opinion or feelings about it? How about no.

Yeah, so helpful, lol.