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[–]questioningtw 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Back when I was more of a libfem, I felt more bullied into accepting transwomen as women and I don't know, lately I have been getting more and more bothered by it. I am also tired of traswomen being hyperfeminine and ornamental, while of course transmen get to be people. It is extremely sexist to act like sex and gender are completely different.

[–]shveya 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I was over libfems almost a decade before I even realized how sexist and regressive TRAs were. They were the first people to tell me that sexual preferences are wrong and that I don't have the right to turn down someone down for sex if they've had their genitals surgically altered. They live to grovel for men.

[–]questioningtw 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I have seen TIFS complain about gay men rejecting them too. I thought feminism was about how no is a complete sentence.

[–]shveya 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I've seen a lot of TiFs on reddit claim gay men are transphobic for not wanting them. I even read an interview with a TiF in London who would trick men in clubs into having sex with her.

[–]questioningtw 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That is rape. People should be able to reject someone for any reason when it comes to the dating world.

[–]shveya 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

100% true, it's astonishing how many transpeople seem okay with rape by deception.

[–]EveSerpent 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not really. Their whole lives are based on deception and entitlement to have everyone bend to what they want, irregardless of what anyone else wants.

[–]MarkTwainiac 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In the UK, it's not rape, coz per UK law rape is penetration by a penis (a real one, attached to a male). What this TIF was doing was sex by deception.

[–]distortedlinds 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

WELL said, seriously

[–]MezozoicGay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've heard about one such story too. And read few similar stories, but with TiM coercing young lesbians to have sex with him, and then no one from their woke friends were supporting her, but calling transphobic after she was raped like this.