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[–]MarkTwainiac 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gender Health Query - a website by LGBT people who dispute transgenderism and gender ideology and want to promote safer more humane, and more effective ways of treating people with gender dysphoria and identity issues - is a treasure trove of information.

https://www.genderhq.org/trans-youth-controversial-schools-lgbt-science-dysphoria

The websites of two groups set up by concerned parents are also treasure troves of solid, well-researched information:

https://www.transgendertrend.com/

https://4thwavenow.com/

More excellent resources here pertaining to young people of both sexes here:

https://inspiredteentherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/11.19-Gender-Critical-Resources.pdf

And here: https://gendercriticalresources.com/Wiki/doku.php?id=resources:for_parents

And here: https://lilymaynard.com/

And here: https://www.peaktrans.org/children/

There are lots of well-researched, well-argued works out there that debunk many of the specific claims that TRAs make, such as the fake stats they cite about suicide and murder rates, about male & female brains being noticeably different and trans people supposedly having brains of the other sex, and the lie the that if a young person doesn't immediately transition, they will likely kill themselves ("better to have a live daughter than a dead son") and so on. Here are just a few:

https://www.womenarehuman.com/debunking-the-myth-of-gendered-brains/

https://fairplayforwomen.com/suicide/

https://quillette.com/2019/12/07/are-we-in-the-midst-of-a-transgender-murder-epidemic/

https://sue-donym.medium.com/the-transgender-movement-and-bad-stats-a-debunking-compilation-31760947b382

If your cousin is a male who has "come out" as trans at 14, which is long past puberty will have started, and he is attracted to females sexually, then he has a distinctly male paraphilia (new word for what used to be called a perversion) called autogynephilia or AGP.

AGP is "the propensity of a male to become sexually aroused by the thought of himself as female." AGP always starts when adolescent boys begin masturbating while fantasizing that they are female, often whilst wearing, rubbing themselves up against and/or cumming into articles of female clothing or related to female hygiene such as menstrual pads.

Males who develop "gender dysphoria" and start claiming they are trans after puberty has begun do so because they have augtogynephilia. Even males who are primarily sexually attracted to other males can have AGP too. Sexologists Ray Blanchard and J Michael Bailey explain male "gender dysphoria" that comes from AGP here:

https://4thwavenow.com/2017/12/07/gender-dysphoria-is-not-one-thing/

AGP is especially common amongst adolescent and full-grown males today due to the predominance and easy availability of genres of internet porn and known as "sissy," "bimbo," "forced feminization" and "hypno sissy." More on that here:

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/sissy-porn-the-gender-movements-dirty

More on autogynephilia here:

https://quillette.com/2019/11/06/what-is-autogynephilia-an-interview-with-dr-ray-blanchard/

https://sue-donym.medium.com/the-elephant-in-the-room-dc822144a81b

BTW, if there are any females living in your young cousin's household, or he visits other households where females reside, all those females need to start locking their bedrooms and other places where they keep their underwear, nightgowns, bathing suits and other "female coded" clothing, as well as other female-associated items like menstrual products, makeup and hair grooming tools and supplies so that your male cousin can't get access to them. Coz guys with AGP really get super aroused by violating the boundaries of girls and women they know, and to a boy and man they all start out by stealing or borrowing the clothing and other personal items of females in their lives to give themselves "gender euphoria" (code for massive boners) and to use as masturbation aides.

The good news is that autogynephilia does not have to overtake your cousin's life the way it so often does. Some men with AGP decide not to indulge it. Here is a lovely young man explaining his AGP:

https://youtu.be/hG9jBXGPnxE

A sexologist interviews a young man who took cross-sex hormones and T-blockers and decided he was trans after developing what he says was "rapid onset gender dysphoria" and autogynephilia that he says he's now outgrown:

https://youtu.be/NHLPk1JrPzQ

Another young(ish) man who "transitioned" for a while due to autogynephilia, which he now has come to believe was a symptom of his autism:

https://youtu.be/z6LI_l-hmQs

Another young man with AGP explaining his paraphilia in an interview with a TIF:

https://youtu.be/dz2MFYvD3rU

The bad news is that males' AGP is very deleterious and often profoundly damaging to the women in these males' lives, be they the fellas' mothers, sisters and other female relatives, and of course their GFs, partners, wives and daughters. And letting AGPs do as they want is very bad for society over all, coz these men will ride roughshod over girls and women's boundaries, they want to invade and dominate female-only spaces and sports, and they are hell-bent on rolling back women's rights to speak out and oppose them in any way:

https://youtu.be/i5k2osnQ_tc

[–]BiologyIsReal 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know about the google document you're looking for, but I can give you some links that may be usefull.

J.K. Rowling is Right: Sex is Real and it is not a Spectrum

Project Nettie: scientists supporting biological sex

What is Autogynephilia: an Interview with Dr. Ray Blanchard

What Many Transgender Activists Don’t Want You To Know and why you should know it anyway More about autogynephilia.

Shame and Narcissistic Rage in Autogynephilic Transsexualism

The Controversy Surrounding The Man Who Would Be Queen: A Case History of the Politics of Science, Identity, and Sex in the Internet Age

An interview with Lisa Littman, who coined the term rapid onset gender dysphoria

Gender Activists Are Trying to Cancel My Book. Why is Silicon Valley Helping Them? About the "Irreversible Damage..." book.

How the Fight Over Transgender Kids Got a Leading Sex Researcher Fired

Long-Term Follow-Up of Transsexual Persons Undergoing Sex Reassignment Surgery: Cohort Study in Sweden

David Reimer and John Money Gender Reassignment Controversy: The John/Joan Case

What is Gender Dysphoria? This is pro-TRA, but you can read the diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria according to DSM-5, which is mostly about stereotypes.

https://www.transgendertrend.com This website have lots of information about trans-identified children.

Society for evidence based gender medicine

The Gender Identity Phantom

Why I Resigned from Tavistock: Trans-Identified Children Need Therapy, Not Just ‘Affirmation’ and Drugs

Gender Dysphoria and Children: An Endocrinologist’s Evaluation of I am Jazz

GnRHa (‘Puberty Blockers’) and Cross Sex Hormones for Children and Adolescents: Informed Consent, Personhood and Freedom of Expression

Sex, gender and gender identity: a reevaluation of the evidence

Jack Turban’s Dangerous Campaign to Smear Ethical Psychotherapy as Anti-Trans ‘Conversion Therapy

The Swedish U-Turn on Gender Transitioning for Children

Children's gender identity clinic concerns go back 15 years

INTERVIEW: Sam, Nele, and Ellie transitioned as young women, living as ‘men’ before realizing they’d made a mistake

I was a transgender woman

I Was America’s First ‘Nonbinary’ Person. It Was All a Sham.

https://sexchangeregret.com/

Edit: I forgot to add this one.

I Signed Up to Study Sexual Health. What I Got Was Gender Ideology, Fetishism, and Porn

[–]Monchichi 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't have it- Just a friendly advice to be careful with google documents though. Don't risk getting doxxed or other security hazards. Much better if somebody just copies the list and pastes it as a comment.

Edit: You can find the document by searching, it wasn't too difficult to find. I don't want to link it because I have no idea who put it out there.

[–]anonymale 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is no way for the creator of a public Google doc to see via the Google Docs interface who's opened the document, even if the person opening it is signed in to a Google account at the time. See this article for more detail:

Explicitly shared [to a finite list of email addresses] documents show the name and avatar of users who have currently opened the document. It also shows a full history of edits made by each user. In contrast, publicly shared documents show placeholder animal profiles such as “Anonymous Badger,” “Anonymous Kraken” and “Anonymous Camel” to represent users who are currently viewing the document.

You can test this for yourself with two Google accounts and two web browsers (e.g. Edge and Internet Explorer). One account will create the document in the first browser, and the second account will view it in the second browser. Doing it this way keeps the two sessions separate.

In the first browser, sign into your first Google account, make a Google doc and make it public:

  • Go to docs.google.com and start a blank document. Give it a title and some garbage text if you want.

  • Click Share at the top right. A popup will appear giving you some options.

  • Click change to anyone with the link.

  • Click Copy link and then Done. Leave this window open for convenience. You will be looking at the document again in a moment.

In the second web browser go to docs.google.com and sign in to your second Google account.

  • Paste your document's url into the address bar. When the document opens, you'll see a round icon left of the Share button representing the document's creator. Hovering over it will reveal the name associated with your first, creator, Google account.

  • Leave that second browser window open and switch back to the first browser. You will see a different round icon left of the Share button in your document. Hovering over it will reveal a placeholder label as in the article I linked to above, not the name of your second, viewer, Google account.

If you want you can sign out of Google in your second browser, reopen the document, and see how that affects the pseudonymous placeholder you see in your first browser. It will probably change, but will still be pseudonymous.

I wrote at the top that the Google Docs interface won't reveal to a document creator anything about its viewers. But a malicious document can contain links which seem to point somewhere useful but actually go to a malicious domain which might record the ip address of viewers or try to install malware. Google Docs tries to help here: its default behaviour is that a click on a link in a document will show the url that link actually points to, and you have to click again to open the link. In Google Docs go to Tools>Preferences to check this is switched on.

tldr: creators of public google docs cannot see who views them, but viewers can see who created them. But you still need to be sure you trust links embedded in public Google docs before you click them.

[–]eddyelric 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)