It makes sense to worry about this and discuss it. Because I think feminist groups really do eventually turn more against women than men a lot of times. I'm not saying that's happening in this sub very much. But for example, that thread about Tifs fetishizing gay males seemed a bit lop-sided. Considering its un-spoken comparison to Tims fetishizing women. The problems of tifs fetishizing gay males just did not seem to compare, even close. At least not by any level that was discussed in that thread.

But yes there are some really toxic women who hate women. And so called transmen who hate women. And that's not ok.

One problem is that there are some manipulative males who will make it sound like, if toxic women exist at all, then that means you can't complain about men being a problem. They're wrong about that, but it makes it hard to address the problem.

Abusive women are also creepy parasites to other women. But for some people, if you open the door to saying "Let's criticize women too." There are people who will take a mile and be tons more strict on women than men. I don't know how to get around that. I think we should try to be sensible.