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[–]questioningtw 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

They just state over and over that sex and gender are totes different, in their minds the body is unimportant but feelings are.

[–]VioletRemi[S] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Well, first of all - that thread is showing WHY it is important.

And second - not really, they are stating that they are different in one place, and that they aren't in other places. And there even some of them that are saying "in my documents I have written 'female' now, this means my penis is female biology too". And in general gaslighting is their favoirute strategy, like here: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ElBAXsgVcAAZIpq?format=jpg&name=medium - at first they are writing "it is transphobic to not date transgenders" and in the end they are writing "no one forces you to date anyone". Completely contradicting themselves :D

[–]questioningtw 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Sure you aren't allowed to have sex with me! But when you refuse too I will act like you are a horrible and illogical person! The reality is trans people are an extreme minority, and actually do have a hard time dating because they are changing their bodies in an unusual way.

[–]VioletRemi[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

you aren't allowed

You mean "you aren't forced"?

they are changing their bodies in an unusual way.

And their characters are often very bad for dating, as too few people will like narcissistic partner focused on themselves only and who need to spend a lot of money on medicine every month through whole their life. Even if that person is not a trans, but beautiful man or woman.

[–]macaron 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They show their nacissism just by saying people should date them out of pity or some shit. Gross.

[–]macaron 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That isn't anyone else's problem though. Lots of people struggle with dating, like being ugly, very fat, living out in the middle of nowhere, not making much money, etc. That doesn't mean anyone else is to blame. Life is tough for lots of people in all sorts of ways. You deal with your lot.

If you don't want to be friends with a trans person, then that is something a person should address, but when it comes to dating, people can not date someone for any reason they want. No one owes another person intimacy.

Imagine a person you find repulsive, like someone extremely obese with bad hygiene, and being told to date them because they have a tough dating scene.

[–]questioningtw 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. i remember when the whole cotton ceiling incident happened a lot of feminists where talking about how it was no different then fat people having a conference talking about how they felt like they were left out of the dating world because of their weight. That is equally as creepy, and well they have no right calling incels creepy with that logic. People not wanting to date you is not oppression.