all 12 comments

[–]MarkTwainiac 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Most of these guys talk of being "caged":

bouncing up and down on your dildo, shaved, caged and dressed like a little slut for Master

Apparently they are referring to wearing a "cock cage":

https://www.vice.com/en/article/8qgp53/why-these-guys-put-their-dicks-in-cages

https://lockthecock.ca/collections/pink-male-chastity-devices

https://www.etsy.com/market/sissy_cage

According to "Out," cock cages are in vogue not just in the "sissy" community, but amongst gay men who don't fantasize about becoming women or and pretend to be:

Chastity is one of the trendiest fetishes or kinks for gay men at the moment. It is a practice that, when used in a device-driven format, centers submission and dabbles in body modification through orgasm-denial. And while some practitioners use chastity cages only in connection with sex, wearing them for only hours at a time, for some it is a lifestyle.

https://www.out.com/sex/2019/9/25/what-its-wear-chastity-cage-public

That's my TIL dispatch for this Sunday in "Locktober" (apparently these guys have designated the whole tenth month for this kink; who knew? As others have noted, the whole idea of Pride month seems to have accelerated so now what's being celebrated is both Arrogance and Fetish).

Now I am going to scrub my eyeballs with a steel wool scouring pad and a caustic solution.

[–]our_team_is_winning 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That's my TIL dispatch for this Sunday in "Locktober"

I know you always bring encyclopedic knowledge to the discussion, but alas this time I cannot click your links for I would die, and I do not yet have my affairs in order.

The things men will eagerly do with their genitalia and ass -- that right there demarcates men and women if you ask me.

[–]IridescentAnaconda 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

With every fiber of my being I hate Out.

For years my husband has received a free copy of that rag, unasked for, never paid for, and it still keeps coming. I think it's really a direct-mail pharmaceutical campaign to sell HIV meds to their most reliable market segment.

Nevertheless, I find it fascinating to read from a clinical perspective. I remember the "caged jock" issue and I was like are you fucking kidding me?!

[–]BEB 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Men have a very physical reaction to erotic stimuli (well, at least they used to) so I'm guessing these men are bi and not straight.

And disgusting. Yuck.

[–]Cicerosolo 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

They're agp. That's its own sexual orientation as far as I'm concerned

[–]BEB 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's so crazy to think these creatures walk among us...

[–]BEB 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Have you read Ray Blanchard's work on autogynephilia? He coined the name.

[–]Cicerosolo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

No, never. I just used the word agp by coincidence

[–]BEB 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ray Blanchard is a sexologist at the University of Toronto who has done a lot of work on autogynephilia, and coined the word.

To those who don't know what autogynephilia is, it's basically men who get sexually aroused by the thought of themselves as women; many TiMs are autogynephiles.

Some autogynephiles also get aroused by humiliating women or imagining humiliating women (wearing a woman's used sanitary product, ejaculating into women's underwear at a store, listening to women pee in a women's bathroom).

[–]Cicerosolo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God, agps only ever seem to think about sex. Men with fetishes are fucking obsessed

[–]eddyelric 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I should not browse this sub while eating breakfast. Gross!

[–]DauphineJulepe 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What the hell. How can they be offended by the notion of AGP when they're so out there with this crap?