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[–]jelliknight 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You're allowed to tell her how you feel.

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I could, but she's already got an army of wokies who support her new identity and name change. I don't feel like being pounced on or argued with for bringing up how she helped me accept myself after desisting. In the cult desisters and detransitioners are looked at almost worst than 'TERFs'. Because we're living proof transition doesn't always work, that it's not a cure all, and that you actually CAN learn to be happy in your body. So I'd rather not go down that road with her or her followers.