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    ...assuming he does. Which isn’t any of our business. This seems like an oddly prurient place for someone’s mind to immediately jump - like hearing someone is a partnered lesbian and immediately imagining what you think she and her partner must do in bed.

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      It's one thing to bring up that they're two people with penises who have sex with each other, and that's not exactly what "straight" means. It's another thing to start envisioning what precisely they do to have sex, when that's not anything either of them has ever publicly discussed. Like, if you know a guy is a biological male and he introduces you to his boyfriend, it would be a little strange if "all you could think of" was who was more likely to be a top and who was more likely to be a bottom, or something like that.