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[–]yishengqingwa666 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

Fuck, cut these Narc vortexes off. Your "friends"? Really? Do they have YOUR back? Fat fucking chance.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I can't. Like I said, this is everybody. I am a very young person living in an extremely liberal city. I cannot escape this if I want friends. I don't know what to do.

[–]jelliknight 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Don't have friends then. Seriously. These aren't friends, these are enemies you let have access to you in your home or when you're vulnerable. If they're genuinely the only option you're better off without.

You won't be though. When women confidently speak up for themselves and refuse to compromise it acts like a beacon to other amazing women.

[–]our_team_is_winning 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Make older friends. With the virus we can't do much of anything, but when you can go out again, join some clubs or activities that attract older women. They have actual knowledge and life experience to share with you and don't spend all their time in Transworld. When I was young (long ago....) I tended to have friends a decade older than me that I met through hobbies and my mother thought it was weird, but there was far less drama and I learned more about the real world.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That sounds great

[–]MezozoicGay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do not let them gaslight you into this. Do not do what terrorists are asking you to do, or they will ask more and more, with causing more and more terror. If everyone is doing evil thing - it does not makes that thing good or not evil. Try to not speak on such topics with people there.

Nowadays we have a privilege of having internet, you can connect to people like you through over the world, find similar minded people nearby, maybe even in your city, people you would never met otherwise.