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    [–]MarkTwainiac 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    I'm not trying to pick on you, but first you made this claim:

    if a man takes testosterone blockers, he has no interest in perving on anyone.

    Then when challenged on it, you said:

    I can only speak for myself but I've been taking t blockers for 3 years and since I started I've had almost zero sex drive.

    It's really dangerous to assume and claim that the personal experience of any one person represents what's true for the entire group of people to which that one individual belongs. But that's what you're doing. There's a reason that scientific studies, careful research and polling are done: personal anecdote is not the same as data!

    Many of us here are very well versed in a number of fields. We know great deal about male predators and pervs coz we've been preyed on by them all our lives - which in my case is many decades. We have studied the scientific literature and followed these topics closely. Some of us are in, or have been in, professions where we have met, interviewed, analyzed and worked directly with sex offenders and men and boys with paraphilias.

    If I see a woman now, online or in real life and I find her physically attractive, I notice her but that's it. I'm more interested if she's a nice person these days. If somebody smiles at me in the street, I smile back but I'm shyer now and I don't tend to stare at people. I like myself a lot more now.

    Women here are discussing - and raising the alarm about - having our boundaries violated, our rights taken away, our psyches damaged, our feelings trampled, and our bodies spied on, abused and perved on by males who are using trans rhetoric and ideology to get away with bloody murder -figuratively speaking, but sometimes literally too. And that's is what you come up with in response? It's not all about you, mate.

    Now that you like yourself so much, maybe it's time to try to develop a little empathy for others.

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      [–]yishengqingwa666 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Stick that flounce, dude.