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[–]Vari4 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Question: Is someone really your friend if you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them and hide who you are from them. IMHO at best someone like this isn't friends with you - they're friends with who they think you are.

Also for anyone in this situation remember that the women who are raped by men have the high moral ground here. Don't let them take it without a fight.

[–]luckystar 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So my close friends I've talked about this stuff with, one was a permanent friendship ender but the rest all agreed with me. But I'm talking more like... casual friend from college level of friendship. It's a minefield and if I can avoid the topic I do. Gotta choose your battles