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[–]Aloudmeow 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a married child free woman I can’t disagree more. The question of whether or not to reproduce should be agreed upon before marriage but some people don’t have their decision set in stone until they’ve lived as a couple and seen how good life can be without kids. Folks need to be encouraged to leave a marriage as soon as they make that decision if their partner doesn’t share the same feelings so as not to waste that person’s time. But it doesn’t always work out that way and no one is done any favors by either agreeing to have kids they don’t want, or to be holding back someone who has incompatible feelings.