you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]writerlylesbian 92 insightful - 1 fun92 insightful - 0 fun93 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

What's with all the 'she'? This person is a male. A male who isn't even trying very hard to 'be a woman' from the sounds of it. (Not that any amount of 'effort' can result in someone magically changing sex anyway). This person is gaslighting you, making you have sex you don't want to have as a lesbian - heterosexual sex that involves interacting with a male person and their penis - and you are worried about this person? Really? I can promise you this person is not in any way worried about you or your wellbeing.

Don't even get drawn into explaining and reasoning with this person. No matter what it will end up with you being accused of being transphobic. Just don't give them the opportunity. Just say, it's not working, it's over. Block this individual every way you can and go no contact. That's it. That is your solution.

[–]our_team_is_winning 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

What's with all the 'she'? This person is a male. .... making you have sex you don't want to have as a lesbian - heterosexual sex

Thank you! I was closing this post in disgust. Thought I'd wandered into a Libfem site. Sorry to tell the OP, but she is bisexual now. I'm not convinced this is a legit story (?)

[–]writerlylesbian 86 insightful - 1 fun86 insightful - 0 fun87 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There are plenty of young lesbians who have been/are being gaslighted into dating these, quite frankly, predatory men who proliferate throughout LGBTQ spaces. OP may well be one of them. Being a lesbian who has been manipulated into practising conversion therapy on herself does not make her bisexual. She's still a lesbian if she's only attracted to women, i.e. biological females.

[–]LesbiSilly 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

YES! I almost dated a transgirl, because I liked him as a person. But he asked me out all of a sudden and I thought, "hey. He might not have a dick." But my next thought was, "what if he does? What do I do?" Then I panicked for 3 days and didn't go on the date.