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[–]Literallyawoman 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

If you're ever in a mood to feel real depressed check out r/mypartneristrans it's 99% women being told their feelings don't matter and that they have to stay with and put their trans husbands wants and desires before their own. Just post after post of women being hurt, sad, and disgusted and being told over time they will condition themselves to ignore their feelings and "love" their transwoman partners despite their changing genitalia and franklyusually becoming drama queen assholes.

The relationships are SO toxic on there!

[–]Comatoast 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'll choose the depression by proxy option. In a world where people leave their spouse over the most ridiculous bullshit, staying with someone who is a detriment to your own mental, sexual and financial wellbeing shouldn't be on your priority list. It's starting to sound like a prenup might not be a bad idea for most spouses in instances like this, where your entire shared savings and kid's college funds can be pissed through for the sake of chasing pipe dreams.

[–]missdaisycan 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is truly insightful. "Bad faith coming out" clauses should be standard in prenups; prenups should become common place. Infuriating that the person who enters (marriage) a legal partnership in good faith is the one expected to cater to the partner who, for whatever excuse/fear, did not.

Why have individual self awareness, personal responsibility and acceptance of consequences, been discarded and belittled? All hail the male toddler behavior?

[–]CastleHoward 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I went to r/mypartneristrans and I am so sad but yet so irritated. I had issues with my ex-husband but if he had said he was a woman I would have instantly walked. This is why we need women's spaces.