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[–]meranii 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I hope your heart heals, it's got to be awful to lose a partner of 3 years to this delusion. It's probably very painful right now but it will get better and you'll get over her. hugs Her internalized misogyny is super-unfortunate, but at least she didn't try to get you to accept her as a guy and make you re-define yourself as straight or bi.

Honestly, it's not unlikely that in a couple of months or years she'll detransition, once the shiny special-ness of her "new identity" wears off, and she'll (try to) come crawling back to you. Live your life, block her and move on if you can so you're free of any of her future drama, because I think she's clearly shown you she's not the one for you. You sound like a good person because you still have concern for her well-being but don't let her keep you on her backburner.

[–]TarshishJupiter[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Yes, three years of nothing but good times (minus homophobic parents), and then this. I guess I'm past the surprise now, but it still really threw me for a loop. I hope this isn't something she decides to move forward with, but as someone here said, it's not my responsibility anymore to worry about that.