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[–]lairacunda 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If you are going to sue for custody of another woman's child, you'd best have a damn good reason. And unfortunately for you, your husband and the boy, a crazy, unstable, narcissistic mother who wants to trans her kid will not be considered a good enough reason. Find another one, or better yet, several. Prove that she endangers him in tangible ways the authorities will recognize. And don't even mention transing and the dresses. Because like you said, dresses, so what?

[–]halebop[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly why we haven't taken any action. The bar is incredibly high and would require that she actually do some damage and we aren't willing to just allow the kids to be harmed so we have always stepped in and called her out so she's either fixed it or done a better job of hiding it at least. The only real tangible thing we had was educational neglect but now no one is going to school so so that won't be helpful anytime soon.