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[–]Literallyawoman 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s so sad people who don’t even have gender dysphoria are so hung up on their bodies-it’s pure ego and so materialistic. We’re all so alike in many different bodies and that should be celebrated and accepted. Gender doesn’t define you as a person( though it sure as hell shapes your experiences in society) and alloting so much importance to your pronouns imho is so incredibly limiting to your soul.

Being born female is the female experience and like it or not you’re a woman if you’re born female and all that comes with it. You can be a female who presents masculine but you’ll never be a man. And why is that so awful? It’s like accepting your skin tone and ethnic background and the genetic and cultural experiences you have simply by being born into them. Being a woman is simply being born one it isn’t how you dress or sound or act. It’s just your body.

It’s also not something you can own for better or worse just by getting a vaginaplasty and wearing dresses. You can present as a woman but you literally aren’t and that’s where the problem lies-speaking for and over real women of all races just because you want to be one of us and live out your fantasy of womanhood-“the girlhood you missed out on” is a fantasy of bullshit! The reality is much darker and complex but only real women experience it and own it.

They want to sugarcoat it as men who want to be woman and just be accepted and go on with a normal life, but it's not about acceptance once you're demanding people deny reality, deny their personal boundaries, deny their personal labels and experiences to force your way into cosplaying and fetishizing their female trauma and female experience.