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[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This makes me so angry. What are we going to do about it? The whole pandemic response has been male centered and women’s issues were completely ignored.

[–]coffeedrinker 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As usual, in a societal crisis women are the ones who suffer most.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"“some could be choosing to switch studying for work in a post pandemic economy”." This is what I have chosen to do. I have a business, but I am going to get a couple of more degrees.

I am not over 50, but I am near 40, and I am not being chosen for jobs because I am told I am overqualified and over-educated.

You youngins coming straight from college, trust me, you have it easier. My resume frightens employers. They've remarked on it. When I have more education and experience than any potential supervisor, I am seen as a threat.

What these women need to do is what I have done. Dumb down your resume. Remove education and work. It sucks, but also, change your female name to a male name on the resume itself. I did this twice to get jobs, and it was disgusting.

(I have worked in many fields, including programming, medical, and others).

I could not get an interview to save my life after my second miliatry job. Why? My female name. I would apply for programming positions and I was told outright they had no clerical positions open. Listen fuckers (I thought) I can run circles around you.

So I listed my name as the shortened, male version. Not everyone can get away with that. It is a psychology, peer reviewed fact, many studies over, that men are chosen first. Men are interviewed first. Males are hired first in academics. When people were given the exact same research studies to review them, women names were seen as incompetent, not knowing what they were doing, while males were thought to be all knowing and better at writing.

If trans want to larp us, even without that, feck em. Larp a man digitally. Get your foot in the door.

[–]eddyelric 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What can we do?

[–]suzyquattrosshoes 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Depends on what the goal should be.

If we want to maintain the existing system, guaranteed minimum income since automation and free trade are tearing reams out of the workforce.

With so many people out of work though, I don’t see how women in their 50s can beat out hungry young hustlers who will stay late, work for peanuts - put up with all kinds of exploitative practice - and really believe whatever company “mission”.

Fact is anyone of either sex over 50 has to be jaded AF. I am and so is everyone I know, all my friends (early 40s) don’t GAF and basically want to retire. We have all seen and experienced too much bullshit to care anymore. Sorry to say it, but it’s true.

Micromanagers, narcissistic bosses with terrible ideas, the fucking men-children who steal your shit, backstabbers, annoying clients/customers/patients/parents/you name it.... who wants it. Who can even pretend to want it. Especially now when companies are supposed to be like families and steal your leisure time, gross.

Other than that there’s revolution which I guess might actually occur.

[–]YourSister 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am not yet 50, but near, and this is so depressing. I have no job now, and I have no idea if I ever will.

Does anyone have any recommendations for careers for over 50 women who cannot nurse? (Not coding, either. I have 25 years in software, and I can't get hired anywhere)

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What general part of the world you live? I’ve noticed that ageism in tech is less prevalent on the East and Midwest of the US than the west coast. The west coast in general is shitty towards women and definitely older women. The fact that people uphold this shitty place as some bastion of women’s rights is hilarious.