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[–]Sun_bear 48 insightful - 2 fun48 insightful - 1 fun49 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Writing that it is a letter aimed at banning transgender athletes from competing in sports is obfuscating the issue. The issue is men are attempting to compete in women's sports and men should not, for any reason, not even it they sincerely believe they actually are women, not even if they'll kill themselves if they don't get their way, be allowed to participate in women's sports. Men who do are cheats and nothing more.

[–]jjdub7Gay Male Guest Commentator 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

they'll kill themselves if they don't get their way

People who threaten this never have actual intent to do it. Actual suicidal people never tell anyone.

[–]anonymale 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Actual suicidal people never tell anyone.

Not wishing to further derail this thread but lots of suicide-prevention sites say that is a dangerous myth. For example:

https://nami.org/Blogs/NAMI-Blog/September-2018/5-Common-Myths-About-Suicide-Debunked

http://www.suicide.org/suicide-myths.html

http://suicideprevention.nv.gov/Youth/Myths/

https://www.aetna.com/health-guide/suicide-myths-and-facts.html

The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention lists talking about suicide as a specific warning sign.

[–]Feather 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's good to point this out every time the myth comes up, even if it's not fully on topic. It's important for people to know that this is a myth.

[–]jjdub7Gay Male Guest Commentator 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True, perhaps I'm oversimplifying. Should clarify that people who make suicide threats unless their demands are met never follow through.

[–]lefterfield 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some people who threaten suicide are only using it to get their own way, but definitely true that some people who threaten it also act on it. What we need to tell friends/family/acquaintances is to not accept personal responsibility either way. It is not our job to keep someone else from killing themselves. If they threaten suicide, call a hotline, call an ambulance to have them hospitalized, call someone else qualified to handle it. It's fucked up to try and make someone else feel guilty for your suicidal thoughts, and the first clear sign that you need to distance from that relationship.