Hello, been a LONG time lurker of this sub when it was on that other website.
Not sure if this is the place to ask, but have many of you dealt with having an arrogant TiM as a boss? If so...how did you deal with it?
Currently, been dealing with one and have been close to quitting several times, however do not have a backup job yet so hanging in there.
Just to give you an idea of how he's like:
He's doesn't pass AT ALL as woman. The only thing remotely 'feminine' about him is his long hair and love for the colour pink(oh wow, how special. Must DEFINITELY be a woman!). Furthermore, he supposedly considers himself "soft/empathetic" and basically brags all day about his skills and how different/special he is(one of the "cool girl" types...but a man)...
Apart from that, he becomes extremely OFFENDED if he gets called out for not doing his job and becomes really snappy and self indignant. He even became angry with a fellow coworker for mishearing said coworker calling TiM a "man". I was there during the incident and it sounded more like coworker said "Yes ma'am" or was using an expression?(ex. "Aw man!" or "What's up man?") So, that coworker ended uo getting lectured, unsure if taken to HR.
Anyhow, there are fellow coworkers who come to me for assistance because they feel comfortable talking to me, but boss TiM doesn't like it and has made a few rude comments to me in regards to it.
TiM can go from being extremely "sweet" to "passive aggressive" in a moments notice, it's rather...strange.
...Anybody else can relate to dealing with an entitled (boss) TiM?
Also...Pretty much my entire management team comprises of MEN(yes TiM, you too!).
Oh lol and just to add to why I think he's full of BS:
He says he's a "lesbian"(lmfao) and his wife and him NEVER argue, plus, word on the street, he's apparently poly with another GF...I wonder whose idea was that? His, or his wife? Hmm...
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