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[–]fijupanda 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

cause they're taught they have to suffer for beauty, and religions blame them for ebilz, fall from heaven, desire, temptation etc

men enjoy female suffering since they're mostly sadists so women think if they swallow the pain and suffering men will eventually like them or will change their ways which is bullshit

anyways, when everyone ignores and spits on your problems, issues, pain, you learn to self mutilate psychologically or physically from early on

besides, young girls are told: stay safe, cover yourself up, watch out, mind your own business, and boys are told: go out and play.

it's like we're responsible for everything men do to us. and that's ingrained from early on through gender stereotypes, male cloud god religions, media. so you start to hate yourself more, instead of directing that anger at the cause of your suffering.

[–]MezozoicGay 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it's like we're responsible for everything men do to us

In many Middle East countries it is women's "fault" if men see her and get aroused, it is women's fault if men is cheating or sinful, and so on.