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[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

¯_(ツ)_/¯

Now that I've parted ways with this guy and had time to calm down, I do think it's really funny. But I don't think he understood how hypocritical it was for him to say that lol

[–]jelliknight 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think he absolutely knew. It was bait. He wanted you to point it out so he could wail TRAAAAANNNSPPHHHOOOOOOBIC and cry to everyone about you. He's probably telling that that anyway if you're not in the group any more.

See if you'd stayed in the friend group he'd have you over a barrel. He'll go around telling everyone you called him a man until you either snap and say "he IS a man" or fall over yourself "validating" him in order to prove that you wouldn't do such a thing. Narcissists are good at that shit. You did the smart thing by cutting him out.

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but you are most likely right. His behavior fits the narcissist description to a T. I'm done playing that game.