My TIM "friend" claimed I was mansplaining to "her", so I'm done being friends

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[–][deleted] 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

LOL they always make the duck face. Another look I noticed on the dating app is when they tilt their head forward, and look up with this angry eye look, as if it is sexy. LMAO. Where are they getting this crap from? Do they see ANY other women tilting their heads down, furling their brow, and then looking up as if this is some sexy pose! I am laughing because I am a lesbian on dating apps, and it is ALWAYS the same with these guys.

They are doing their makeup like MIMI from the Drew Carey Show.

"fly off the handle"--typical Trans identified male chite right there. They act like children, throwing tantrums. I believe the cross sex hormones, for TiMs specifically, keep them perpetually in this state. Someone please chime in who has evidence of this or a source. They are like a young teen and stuck there, frozen in time, going off ALL the time. It gets worse when they go through estradiol withdrawals when injecting.

Did you notice (unsure if you can go back and view texts or not, or if you even care) that he was going off weekly? They almost all go through weekly withdrawals, because their docs do not give them enough (they even all complain about this on reddit forums) and some of them will go out and black market obtain pills, which will hit their systems hard and cause toxicity.

Of course, the person with narcissistic personality disorder did not want to be told what to wear--how fecking dare you have an opinion! (sarcasm). You will only give your opinion when it is asked of you, and when it supports fawning him.

Everything you stated screams super bad NPD traits. Begging for the compliments. Comparing the two of you and putting you down for having breasts, as if you should feel guilty for that. Claiming to be the victim, when he is the attacker. And then, you had to tell him he was making the wrong clothing choice, you should be stoned, tarred and feathered for your crimes!

I hope things are OK with your hubby and what might be a strained dynamic there. Maybe your hubby will see him to be ridiculous as well, and just part ways,

One can only hope.

Hang in there!

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks so much for your kind wishes! And yes, omg, he also does the downward head tilt with the eyes looking up! It's such an awful look for anyone lol!

Unfortunately I don't remember if he was going off on is weekly. I deleted his texts and blocked his number because he kept spamming my phone. But it was definitely happening a lot more often. It was probably due to the withdrawal. I would also love to see if anyone has evidence of this trend.

And as far as the clothing goes, one of my male friends, who runs as his exercise of choice, also chimed in saying running shorts would be better than yoga pants. He also got the "mansplaining" thrown at him, but the runner friend was also correct. This dude just didn't like to be told that yoga pants are not good except as shapewear lol

My husband supports me, as he thinks this Tim has been really annoying with his witch hunts among our friend group. I told my husband if he wants to continue to see this guy, it will not be in our house.

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"Side effects of estrogens may include migraines, mood swings, hot flashes, and weight gain" You don't say? Haha right on the trans website. The mood swings alone happen with the injection, and then they also get the weekly withdrawals. Wowsas.

I only know about the withdrawals because of the number of TiMs that chase me on dating apps because of my height, so for quite a time I talked to them out of curiosity and got them to open up to me about things. A lot of them do not even see a doctor, they just go to planned parenthood, no diagnosis, and get their drugs.

I am so sorry again you are having to go throughthis. I have a lot of experience with them in person and chasing me all over the place as I am the holy grail for them to date because I validate them with my height. Ugh.

Soon I will age out of the dating scene entirely, and life will be grand.

https://transcare.ucsf.edu/guidelines/feminizing-hormone-therapy

[–]SameOldBS 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yet more proof that AGP is just the gender flip side of NPD.

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Yep! I am sure this has been discussed before in the subs on Reddit, but I am certain they hide AGP because it would be seen as a sexual deviance, and a kink, and something damaging. So they hide who they are to the world. Blanchard did not just think this stuff up, his patients all came to him and told him. It is has been one big cover up since.