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[–]tuesday 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

thank you for saying that. my comment in her other thread was a lot more... graphic. :D

cos whoops i grew up on a farm, and er... apparently i have butchered animals in a very womanly oh i meant feminine way.

The problem with the term feminine is that it is referring back on itself without ever defining anything, which is incredibly circular. ALL the dictionaries do that for that word. Who is feminine? Women. And not just any woman but a good woman cos feminine men are baaaaad. So what is it that good women do in a feminine way? Oh gosh be all cute and cuddly and pornified. Who benefits when women act like that? men. The REAL definition of "feminine" is just "anything that women do which men like".

It's a dumb male gaze category type word, stop using it.

[–]Nohope[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I didn't get to see your comment in my other thread before you deleted it :((, is it okay if you could send it again? I'm just curious even if it's graphic and wish the comment was not deleted, or send the comment you removed via private messages on saidit pretty please? If you're more comfortable with private messages, thank you my friend <3

[–]vitunrotta 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Baiting much? :D Who are you really, some aggravated Reddit TiM moderator that cannot comprehend WOMEN may want to talk amongst themselves about things that apply to them... because of their biology?

Good luck. We are not the haters. Your little cutesy heart signs here and there won't fool anyone, either. Back to your own sunshiny rainbow world, shoo shoo ◕ᴗ◕

[–]Nohope[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Eh, I'm a female, you're talking to a human with a vagina here. I'm saying the point of GC is we have a biological sex and we can talk about the biological sex. But that we are not supposed to follow the roles that come with the biological sex, just because girls/women have vaginas, it doesn't mean girls/women should be short, have no muscles, have "smooth" skin, have less body hair, like pink, wear dresses, wear make up, be nurturing, have big boobs, etc.

And same for men, doesn't mean males/men should be aggressive, tall, etc.

But when you say a man that is short, has high pitched voice, etc is "feminine" you are saying the qualities he has are the qualities women have which means you're saying women should be a certain way like be shorter than men and if a man is short, etc he's being like a woman which is what TRAs argue

[–]vitunrotta 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So you do not understand the very idea of gender critical at all, then. Glad you managed to at least admit that. Please, go back to some site that speaks in a way a 13-year-old is doing "critical thinking."

I'm outta this "conversation," good luck with your next endeavour of trying to bait someone to get them talk badly about you. :) All the best, pusipusi.