This will be leading in to something Duncan is going to be talking about in his future writing.

I was unsure if I should comment here or create a part two to my other post I made.

I have also been asked to write about this, my personal experiences with TiM, how they lost their minds at my rejection, stalked me in person, drove with their Black Escalade to my home, signed up for a sports team in the state I live in, stalked me, demanding I marry them while threatening me at the same time. I am trying to find a way safely to out them all, by name, and what they said/did to me. Not even fecking around.

When I ranted on about being chased by TiMs on the internet and in person, I meant it. I did not go into detail. I was able to reach out and talk privately to Duncan, who confirmed some things I shared directly with him, which I am going to share with you now.

It has been quite upsetting to me and I have felt alone. You may all listen to me, and I thank you for that, but you do not understand. Duncan fully understood the very specific things I shared with him about my experiences of TiMs contacting me, wanting me, becoming obsessed with me within a day, if not just seeing me for seconds, proposing marriage, losing their minds over me, because I am a tall, in shape, strong femme lesbian.

I fit a ROLE.

AN AGP role. A fantasy with them. Because, they are AGP. The lot of them.

The person who knows about male clients and BDSM might be interested in this as well.

In my post I talked about TiMs chasing me. A few hundred messaged me the craziest things on dating apps. I remember when it first was happening, and at the time I was taking sips from the woke kool aid firehose.

They would say things like "I can finally wear heels!" or "I can be the little spoon finally" in their first message to me (this was before you had to match with someone on OKC to message them), I would wake up to literally dozens every morning, it was if TiMs were doing a search for all lesbians over 5'10". They would have everything planned out, our lives together, upon their first message. I am, the holy grail, in their fetish minds. It goes beyond that. (This combined with the ones I met in person when I was doing some activism garbage with them). They wanted me to hit them, to choke them in their messages.

Here's the kicker. The majority of them kept saying this phrase to me: "make me your woman." There it is. AGP. They would talk about clothes they wanted to wear, touching themselves, while pretending to have a vagina, wanting me to do things to them. They were very descriptive in what they would ask of me, right out of the gate. Some would have scenarios in mind, places, marriage ceremonies to be fake, or real, things they wanted to say or do, down to the music. It was all orchestrated, for all of them.

Some had fantasies of us growing old together, watching the trees grown in the yard, very specific, specific house, but with me choking them, and making them, their subordinate woman, while they got off sexually, on the image in ther minds, of having a vagina, with me, playing a role in their story.

Duncan already planned to write this out (he is not writing about my experiences, but he is going to chime in on AGP stuff and how it relates to gay male sex), I did not prompt him to do anything. You are going to see things written where he is going to talk about the parallels of what I just said, and gay male sex, AGP, and dominant and submissive roles.

I am not going to let stand the abuse I have faced by TiMs seeing me as a fetish for them in a script in their head to get off at all costs.