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[–]EllaRoxy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this. I have lost several friends due to this and due to the current political climate. It's heart breaking but what I am coming to realize is it's for the best. They aren't going to come around at least they haven't in my experience. Regarding the penis comment, it's the same argument men have used on me over the years. Well you like having strap on sex, how about the real thing? You just need a good dicking. I hate that I have to defend who I am attracted to. It's hard enough to try and find another femme who isn't poly (no offense but I don't share well), who is into femmes and doesn't believe all of this gender nonsense. I have come to realize it's a long shot for me to find someone and that makes me terribly sad but I try and find connection in other ways. By the way you aren't an idiot bigot.