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[–]Literallyawoman 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If he isn’t in your life anymore my advice is don’t respond-you owe him nothing! Or maybe send “that’s nice” then block em.

I’ve had ex’s contact me with similar “new me” attention-seeking stories and I now feel it’s NOT my job to validate them; blocked and ignored. In my experience it just means they want to rope you into being their free therapist because you had a connection before-fuck that!