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[–]jet199 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If you have the ability just tell him straight it's a fetish. Then carry on as normal without changing how you treat him.

Likely no one is talking to him honestly so he will need that. He won't like it but he'll need it. And if you don't change you behaviour towards him he can't honestly accuse you of being hateful. He still will, but he'll know its not true.

People really have to get out of addictions and mental health problems by themselves. You can be their with the info but you can't think for them.