Can't take it anymore.

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[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Thank you everyone. I wrote that really quickly, and very upset after reading in the news yet another TiM followed a child into a bathroom and committed assault.

I have no one to talk to, or to relate to, in real life, about any of this.

Tavistock, what is happening in the UK, JK Rowling, I have no one to interact with in person over a cup of whatever. It would be so nice to hang out with a like minded person in human form! Ugh!

I cry for those of us who are isolated during the pandemic, and also, have no one to talk to about this!

Is there a country I can relocate to where things like this are not happening? Where people act civilized, even part of the time?

I have education that can get me permanent VISA pretty much anywhere.

I moved to a large, liberal city that is known to have culture, etc, and I realized before anything else, I missed nature. I missed the small area I am from. I missed camping. I missed peace and quiet. I am just not used to this stalker stuff.

I am certain. that what I typed here, is not all different from how other women are stalked--it just happened to me in larger volume because of the groups I started associating with, the place I live, and the internet. I have been approached and harassed by "standard males" while out grocery shopping as well, who become agressive to me when I say "no thanks".

And then, all of that happened, and people are just being nuts!

Right now I am looking at land to buy in a secluded area away from people.

I was talking to a friend from back home, and we both agreed we are not introverts! We love people, when they aren't being crappy. Sadly, too many are crappy.

Are men in general just reaching an all time high of being really chitty?

[–]puffball 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Are men in general just reaching an all time high of being really chitty?

I honestly don't think so, but shitty men are reaching all time high levels of being really shitty.

In part, I believe we now mostly see and hear from the shitty men, because "we" have inadvertently silenced many of the non-shitty men. They've been reflexively smacked on the nose so many times for "speaking out of turn", especially by libfems, even when perhaps they had a valid point, that now they've largely stopped speaking out at all unless it's very obviously about something directly affecting them. (Then again, most women have also been silenced, e.g., when trying to speak up about the whole trans mess, and most are just hunkering down.)

Since cis men aren't getting much of the grief from TRAs, unlike women in general, and us lesbians especially, I guess they figure that since they often have been told to sit down and listen when women talk about their problems, and often rightfully so, they're now figuring that they'll stay out and do just that.

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    [–]puffball 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Oh yeah! Did you see the transmaxxing document I linked in another post? It's basically a manual for incels and similar on why and how to go trans to improve their chances with women.

    Attitudes and even vocabulary of TRAs/TIMs and incels also have substantial overlap, and I guess I don't need to tell you that it's not normal men who decide to go trans in the overwhelming number of cases.

    There are those who, because of psychological trauma or mental disease end up dysphoric. Not normal, but not necessarily "wrong" in any way.

    You have a large number of autogynophiliacs for whom the trans thing is pretty exclusively about their fetishes and sexual frustrations. Not normal by any standard.

    And finally, you appear also to have the "strategic" incels/nice guys/criminals who have decided that no woman they would deign to date will have them, and who try to get around this, as well as benefiting from the oppression olympics by turning themselves into women. Not normal, and often downright dangerous. I'd bet the majority of trans rapists come from this catergory.