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[–]worried19 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It's all horrible and the number one thing that makes me no longer want to be female.

Sadly, I think almost every man out there abuses women during sex. A recent poll found that nearly 70% of women admitted having men commit violence on their bodies during consensual sex.

Over two-thirds of men under 40 have slapped, choked, gagged or spat on partner during sex, BBC Scotland doc finds

Third of British women have experienced unwanted choking, slapping or spitting during sex

Notice the second article specifies "unwanted." Another 31% said they had also experienced it but that it wasn't unwanted. That means at least 69% of women are experiencing violent sex. Not to mention some of the other 31% who "didn't know" or "preferred not to say." How can you not know? I assume some of the women in this last category were too embarrassed to talk about it.

[–]Bogos 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Not all men. I notice a significant difference in the last 10 years, following the availability of internet porn.

[–]worried19 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not all, but a lot. I have a male partner. I know for sure he has never done any of these things, but I would bet he's an outlier, especially among younger men.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe "not all men", but I refuse to date at this point. Wasted a decade of my life on a porn addict, and he was mild compared to what's "normal" today.