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[–]PurpleAmathea 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

THERE IS NO WAY TO CHOKE SAFELY

At least in bdsm circles this was common knowledge, they even had to specifically separate between "safe, sane, and consensual" (which choking cannot ever be) and "risk aware consensual kink". They were very explicit about this! There is no safe way to choke your partner. Ever.

But now that bdsm has become "mainstream" people who know nothing about safety are touting how to safely do things that ARE NEVER SAFE. NEVER.

I hope these men start getting sent to jail.

[–]ThisReality 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I was on the outer edges of kink world many years ago, choking and "breath play" were considered more advanced BDSM. Definitely not something you'd try after seeing it in a porn movie once or twice. The people who were into it were way too admired though, like "wow, you're so hardcore!" Gross.

[–]yishengqingwa666 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

[–]PurpleAmathea 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes I want to be clear I'm not defending bdsm, I am saying that at least they had this one point correct