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    [–]Girlwiththeraventat 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    Yes this is my life and its depressing as hell. I work a full time job, have a elementary age child and I'm going to college part time. But I'm still expected to clean the house, make the food, and take full care of the child. Meanwhile my husband thinks because he works a job that pays more, that's his only responsibility.

    We have had argument after argument that I need more help around the house. Which pisses me off that it should even be considered "help". Its his house too. His excuse is men can't see the mess and it's not mens fault that women wanted to leave the house and get jobs.

    So I either keep arguing about the same shit we've been arguing about for 10 years, accept that I am responsible for everything and everyone, or divorce him. If we do ever get divorced, I won't date or remarry. Theres just nothing in it for women.

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      [–]RevengeOfTheCis 28 insightful - 10 fun28 insightful - 9 fun29 insightful - 10 fun -  (2 children)

      Men when they get caught watching porn: It's not MY fault, men are VISUAL creatures!

      Men when they don't clean their own mess: It's not MY fault, men don't SEE mess!

      [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      I have more sympathy for messy people, as I’ve always been a messy person. The porn addiction is another story. A large part of why I don’t date is because most men are addicted to porn. I’m not wasting any more time on a porn addict.