Woman is concerned that she isn't tight enough for her new partner and worries that a blow job every other day isn't enough

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[–]JoanofArc5[S] 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the most hearbreaking thing I've read on reddit in awhile. Obviously this woman was in an abusive relationship, but...what has happened that she worries that her only value is providing sex for her partner. She's worried that because she enjoys it ("my vagina really opens up for my new partner"), it's less enjoyable for him. This is so sad. It makes me so angry that men treat women so badly that someone can think like this.

[–]our_team_is_winning 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I want to believe that is a fake post. I really do. Or that poor woman has no self worth, which is heartbreaking. If a woman honestly said "I used to give him blow jobs every day so that he wouldn't have painful sex with me" -- what part of END the relationship did she not understand? Please let that be a fake post. Are you in a relationship or are you an abused sex slave? Girls need to learn to ask that question by the time they reach puberty.

[–]yishengqingwa666 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So, SO glad I am single.

[–]RedditHatesLesbians 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Every day I am thankful for being a lesbian

[–]worried19 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I knew it was going to be r/sex even before I clicked. That place is a hellhole.

[–]fijupanda 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I need a drink... sighs.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These kind of reddit link just depresses me. I'm actually glad not to have as much access to those message boards anymore. Reddit is going to groom more women into accepting abuse, and there isn't much that can be done about it. I refuse to make another account there myself, as I'm convinced it's a dangerous place for women.

[–]Badmammajamma 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly these kinds of posts remind me of the sex callers we would get on the crisis hotline I worked at years ago. Creepers would call in with some crazy scenario “I don’t know what to do because my son keeps stealing my douches, etc,” and it’s clearly a man pretending to be a woman and getting off on me or another worker trying to help.