The "lecturing" is more of a housekeeping item, like reminding someone to make their bed or to take out the trash, since nobody in average society is going to take your policy demands seriously if they have to parse them out from a slew of insults, particularly in the current politically-correct climate. If you want AGPs out of your bathroom, you're probably going to have to engage in a mature, civil tone.

Just because SaidIt is more lenient on speech codes than Reddit has become doesn't mean trash-talking and ad hominems are even remotely useful to the discourse.

I take it that me pointing this out bothers you only because I'm male, since you didn't bother refuting any of the ostensibly-female users that also disagreed with the aim of the post; if that's the case, then you should probably take a long, hard look at your priorities.

If this sub is getting brigaded by cultural attackers, as is happening in a number of other LGB and GC spaces right now, it is simply best not to add fuel that fire and stick to constructive conversation.