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[–]sisterinsomnia 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Many of us develop a built-in radar from bad past experiences. An older man, a stranger, attacked me when I was a first year college student, out in the street about eight at night. I got away, luckily, with minor damage, but ever since that experience I watch everything and everyone very carefully, especially at night.

The shape of someone approaching from a distance at night can be informative and the gait, too, because they can reveal if the person is drunk, angry and so on. These are important skills, in my opinion, though it would be nice not to have to have them.

[–]emissch[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, I pay attention to the shape too along with the gait. I am much more on edge if the shape is larger, moving slowly or just generally being kind of erratic. I haven't even had a particular bad experience either, it's just something I've always had an eye out for. Yeah, it sure would be nice.