I see the following said fairly regularly
The trans people that I have met in person are very nice and respectful people!
But how true is it really? It reminds me too much of NotAllTrans NotAllMen NotMyNigel etc
First, what's the purpose of saying it at all? When a woman says that about men, when the convo is about the behavior of men which is harmful to women, the purpose is to change the subject. Either because she can't cope with the idea that even some men can behave in ways which contribute to an environment of systematic hostility and oppression, or she's either consciously or unconsciously trying to get OTHER women to stop focusing on the bad behavior of some men. What else could it be?
Secondly. Considering the enormous amount of political lobbying, emotional manipulation, and of course the prevalence of cancel culture -- all of which is supposedly achieved by only a few transactivists, it seems quite odd that the "vast majority" are so very nice. i actually think it's more like, as long as you're giving the transperson standing in front of you all the validation they crave, then of course they're not going to show you their crazy side.
There's an old saying "A woman can't tell which man is a rapist until she tells him NO". If have to appease some wanker and ever so gently pander to his feelz when he's being borderline creepy, well, it's because I don't feel safe around him. A normal guy would just accept my casual or maybe even irritated "no thanks" and move on.
I'm starting to wonder if most of them are two-faced. They act charming to you but then go screaming to their boss or congressional representative about how "transphobic" everyone is. What do you all think?
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