You need to look into the work of people who've been studying TIMs for many decades: Janice Raymond, Ray Blanchard, Anne Lawrence (who is AGP trans himself), Michael Bailey, for starters - and also look at what TIMs themselves say on trans websites and books like Chu's "Females." Historically, the vast majority of "real transwomen" - 75% - have always been AGP het males whose main motivation in going trans is their own sexual pleasure and narcissism. Today, the percentage is probably upwards of 80%. But nowadays, even the TIMs who are attracted to other men tend to be just as fetishistic and motivated by AGP and narcissism as the classic het AGPs are.

Also, TIMs don't have to be physically and sexually abusive to girls and women to be a real threat to girls and women's rights. AFAIK, CeCe Telfer, Andraya Yearwood, Terry Miller, June Eastwood and the rest of them haven't raped, assaulted or threatened violence against women. But since they decided to horn in on girls and women's sports they've cleaned up in women's athletics, taking many medals, records, awards, titles and opportunities for advancement and further education away from girls and women.

Males invading female spaces like public loos, changing rooms, lockers and showers, rape refuges, homeless and domestic violence shelters, prison, hospital wards, support groups, counseling programs etc don't need to physically assault or intentionally menace girls and women to deny girls and women our privacy, dignity and peace of mind and to make us feel uncomfortable using those facilities and programs.

It doesn't matter if the TIMs you know are a decent sort - female spaces are not yours to give away, and the consent and feelings of other female people are not yours to wave away either. In places where girls and women are undressed and vulnerable, we should not have to be dealing with males regardless of how they identify or dress. Full stop.

I know many lovely males - have given birth to some, in fact - but I still don't want myself or any other girl or woman to have to get undressed in their presence and under their gaze, or to be forced to get sex assault counseling or intimate care from a male when she'd prefer a female. Nor do I think it's fair for girls or women to be forced to see men's dicks in female spaces either.

Men think that by calling themselves women and their cocks "lady dicks" and getting lots of plastic surgery and adopting offensive, regressive, superficial sex stereotypes that they acquire some sort of "passing privilege" that automatically gives them the right to steamroller over girls and women and insert themselves in any female space they want to barge into. They think that if they believe themselves to have "passing privilege," it means all girls and women worldwide no longer have a right to say no to them and to set boundaries. It's daft that you seem to agree.