(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!!

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[–]oofreesouloo 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Later that night I dropped some food on my inner thigh, and she jokingly asked if she should lick it off.

OMG, EW EW EW. I'm a lesbian and I would NEVER, EVER, say anything like that in a sleepover to a friend, omg I don't know, it sounds so creepy jeeeeez. Thanks for sharing your story. I honestly think you were lucky, because "Jane" was actually more or less respectful of your concerns (a thing that doesn't always happen with 'trans woman' like "Jane")

"I don’t think she was aware that she was acting predatory, but I also think that most men aren’t aware of that." - Exactly, because 'Jane' is a MAN!!!!!! One thing I realised after I peaked, it's that NO MATTER how many surgeries you do, how 'feminine' or 'masculine' you dress, it's IMPOSSIBLE to change sex. You can tell when it's a typical male behavior and when it's typical a female behavior...

[–]Lilith_Fair 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Men who are just friends don't do this either. I'm straight and I had a lot of platonic guy friends when I was in college and in my 20s. Sometimes we'd sleep over at each other's places after a late night out or share rooms when we went on trips (young and on budget). We were all just friends and they would not do say this kind of creepy things to me ever.

[–]oofreesouloo 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What I meant is that there are men who say these kind of creepy thing to women, but you don't see the opposite - women saying these kind of creepy things to men. This 'friend' this woman had, the "trans woman", clearly felt attracted to her, so it was not a platonic friendship

[–]Lilith_Fair 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

True. Women simply don't creep like that. But OTOH, if a woman says something like this to any guy, probably the guy would be like "Oh Yes! So probably if a woman ever behaves this way toward a guy, guys wouldn't think it's creepy behavior? Agree though that no woman Or girl ever behave this way toward each other.

[–]oofreesouloo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. Men and women are very different and 'Jane' clearly sounds and behaves like a man, a really creepy one.