If I understand you correctly, and if what you say is actually what gender critical feminists believe, then it seems that I have drastically misunderstood this whole thing. It sounds like you're saying that there's something wrong with people who don't conform to gender stereotypes. I thought that the whole point of gender critical feminism was that you REJECT the concept of gender, and that a woman can dress and act "masculine" without that making her any less of a woman and a man can dress and act "feminine" without that making him any less of a man because personality and sex aren't connected. I don't see why a woman who has been convinced that she isn't really a woman because her personality doesn't quite fit society's idea of what a woman is necessarily has to have something seriously wrong with her.