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[–]Dragonerne 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Not trying to derail, but to learn, thanks.

[–]Lawfulidealist 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Right now those options (being a tradwife more than wearing pink) are the only option for some people, and an option they are pushed and pressured to for many more. The goal is to abolish the patriarchy to genuinely have free choice - not the "choose your oppression" choice of libfems, but genuiney free choice what to do with their lives, from a broad range of options and without men deciding what they want her to do or what's "appropriate" for a woman. If someone wants to be a tradwife in our current context, it's worth examining why that is something she wants and whether she feels or is pressured into it, but it's still her right to do so. If someone wants the same thing in a post-patriarchal context where men don't have structural power over women, I think that could be seen a lot less critically.

[–]Dragonerne 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

What happens if men say no?

[–]AdultFemaleHuman 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

We have to convince women to join forces to fight men.