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[–]sosorreal 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (20 children)

same. almost broke up with my boyfriend last night over this. still might never see him again because I am so pissed/disappointed on his views of women and censorship.

[–]yoperreosola[S] 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

Same. Broke up with mine (kinda?) this past weekend over his lack of critical thinking, unwillingness to learn or listen, and poor communication skills. He stands against JKR and can't say why. Message me if you want to commiserate about it.

[–]yishengqingwa666 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

Men know that trans MRActivism is misogyny. They KNOW. That's why they support it. Women need to abandon men en masse, they are misogynists and parasites off of women's goodwill, kindness and labor (yes, including sexual and emotional labor). Let them date and fuck TIMs. They deserve each other.

[–]yoperreosola[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I don't think they realize it. That's the problem. Once the mental gymnastic logic is planted in them, they decided that was their stance. Then that stance was validated by the masses of their peers. What did they have to lose? They have 0 skin in the game so they don't take the time to learn or stand up for us. They're afraid to step out and being called a bigot out of their own selfish preservation. They subconsciously think this will redeem themselves of the guilt of the racist patriarchy. "I'm one of the good bros".

[–]1nvar 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'd take a structured approach to induction for vaguely reasonable people:

  1. should TIMs be allowed to compete in the Olympics against women? (point out the "world records" by formerly-mediocre males)

  2. should TIMs be allowed in women's prisons? (point out rapes, and how they almost always keep their penises)

  3. should TIMs be allowed in women's shelters? (^ as above)

Then move onto deeper truths like AGP, grooming/recruiting of vulnerable kids, homophobia (pakistan, tavistock), and misogyny (is a woman dressing in masculine clothing a man?).

[–]yoperreosola[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm gonna try this on, thanks!!

[–]flowerskull21 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Disagree. I think most know exactly what it is, especially the vocal ones online, and that is why they are such big supporters.

[–]yoperreosola[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think they're too brainwashed to realize it's misogyny. My "boyfriend" is not vocal. He jumped on the bandwagon once or twice in conversation but is mostly apathetic to the debate.

[–]remquarkq 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Good for you. Maybe he can go try dating a trans woman now.

[–]Finnegan7921 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA, that's the funny part. Almost every straight guy who goes along with TWAW would never in a million years date a TiM. They may fuck around with them on the DL to get off to some fetish, but publicly ? No way.

[–]SameOldBS 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I guess I'm lucky. My husband doesn't try to defend male BS any more. He pretty much agrees with me on all of it now, because in his heart of hearts he knows what men can be like. But if he drops dead there is no way in the world I'd put up with anything less than wholehearted support on this from a man. I'd rather live the rest of my life alone than share a bed with someone who won't back women.

[–]Taralafya 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Me too, if something happened to my husband who supports my gc/rad leanings, or he left for some reason, I will not remarry or date men. I just don't want to take that chance.

[–]yoperreosola[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They exist! I know it. Sounds like you have a smart man who is willing to learn and converse.

[–]dancing_with_durga 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

My husband cares about women and so he instantly saw how sinister transgender ideology is. He's now even more outraged than me (if that's possible). There are men out there who care about women. Don't settle.

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m sorry he’s being an asshat. Stick to your guns. It’s the truth.