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[–]fearsomegoatsemonstr 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

All my friends are trans and I can't even say I'm detrans without getting called an egg or saying I'm in denial or have internalized transphobia.

it sucks, but you could try telling them you're nonbinary so they'll shut up. then just continue to use she/her pronouns, don't ID as anything other than female around normal people, and if anyone questions it tell them they don't get to define your gender identity for you.

[–]blahblahgcer[S] 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I was already nonbinary in the first place and I told them I didn't care about pronouns, but they all switched to they/them anyways.

[–]High_and_Lonesome 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That would drive me insane. Nobody is calling me "they". I will correct them anytime I hear it.

These people sound awful. Please don't let them bully you into any permanent changes. The person you replied to had a really good solution for you. but if even that doesn't appease them, nothing will. You think that they are your friends, but they don't accept the real you. So they aren't your friends. Friendship is hard for autistic people. I get really hung up on it.

[–]denverkris 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, this shit is really getting out of hand.