GC: How would you react if you saw a trans woman in the women's restroom?

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[–]BiologyIsReal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It's probably part of it, but even before that there were signs.

Like which ones? What made you think you were a girl? You're contradicting yourself. You said being a "woman" it's a matter of how other people perceive you. However, unless you started "medical transition" when you were very young, I doubt other people perceived child derrple as a "girl".

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Kid derrple did, at least. I had an imaginary friend that was just a female version of me, I'd just escape and daydream of having any other life but this. I remember being 6 years old and thinking about castrating myself with scissors. I thought I would grow up to be a woman. when I was in colorguard I felt a v strong sense of belonging because even though I was the only boy they treated me like everyone else, we wore the same outfits and makeup. It just felt like if only I were different I would have fit in fine. I just knew very early there was something wrong and that I couldn't tell anyone.

[–]MarkTwainiac 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I remember being 6 years old and thinking about castrating myself with scissors.

Wow, you were precocious to know all about surgical castration when you were 6! Most kids that age don't understand the significance of testicles yet.

Also, in the retconned standard narrative TW tell of their childhoods, or mothers of trans kids tell, the line is usually that as a little boy so and so wanted to cut his penis off with scissors - or nail scissors in some versions. This is the first time I've heard someone say they wanted to go for the balls.

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I said castration because I don't want to type the name of genitalia. I wanted to get rid of everything and still do. Idk why I even try to share that stuff when you're basically saying you don't believe me. Just feels like shit.

I was a weird gender dysphoric kid. But even if I hadn't been, even if it'd developed later, I'd still be trans and need to transition. And you already know my mom doesn't support me. No one in my family does.