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[–]loveSloaneDebate King 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Since this is a post not a message to the mods, I assume anyone can comment and I personally think BiR is a great mod.

She hasn’t said anything that isn’t factually accurate and I think even if this were actually wrong, it’s not enough to remove her.

People break rules here all the time. They get second and third and hundredth chances.

Sometimes people don’t break rules but say incredibly offensive things and we let it go and move on (example- idk… telling rape victims they should tend to any wounds they give their rapists if they have to defend themselves comes to mind…).

We have two actually consistently active mods. It’s odd you’d jump to remove one of them instead of attempting to have the issue addressed and resolved in a more reasonable way first.

This could have and should have been a private conversation with the mod team.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

telling rape victims they should tend to any wounds they give their rapists if they have to defend themselves comes to mind

What? When did it happen?

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

That’s a gross mischaracterization of what I said. But I am afraid if I clarify that will ban me again.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What thread was it, then? So that I can read it by myself, hoping the comment wasn' t deleted or changed in the meantime.

[–]BiologyIsReal 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Here is where it begins.

The deleted account is circling and Catbug is Houseplant.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Then yes, that' s exactly what mask said. That it' s a rape victim' s duty to help her rapist if she manage to hurt him while trying to escape.

I can' t even begin to try to understand that logic.

Thanks for the link. And wow for that entire convo, really.

The only feeling I would have if I managed to stab my rapist in an attempt to run away would be satisfaction. I wouldn' t give a lesser fuck about "ameliorating" his pain. Let the asshole suffer as much as possible.