Transwomen are not females. That is why most female people don’t include them and don’t want to be forced to be tied/connected to them.

It’s not hate, it’s not not understanding, it’s just knowing that our differences matter much more than any similarities that some TW may share.

Maybe, just maybe, respect the differences you said you’re aware of.

Maybe just consider that your opinion is not fact based and is quite invasive to others, and as such shouldn’t be forced on others nor should it be implied that yours is the only good and right way.

People think differently than you think. A LOT of people. Like a lot a lot… like significantly more than think the same as you. You’re really trying to force a wish fulfillment-based ideology onto almost everyone on the planet. It’s absurd. And it’s actually wrong. History has shown us time and time again that it’s wrong to try to force society at large to bend to the whims of one specific ideology.

Even if TW were actually harmless to women or even so mentally/internally similar that they truly do « identify » as women-

So.

Fucking.

What.

So what. We don’t care. It changes nothing at all.

They aren’t women. They aren’t females. That’s the whole issue. And they won’t ever be the same as us, so stop trying to force everyone to pretend they are and stop sacrificing female equality to protect their feelings and avoid figuring out how to actual treat their mental condition. Even if sex based spaces aren’t a right- a large (significantly larger than the trans community) class of people needs and are accustomed to having specific safety and privacy measures in place in public life. They want to maintain that. Respect that or admit you don’t give a fuck about them. Even though you’re one of them.

Maybe the questions shouldn’t be about sex based rights or female rights or trans rights.

Maybe the questions should be Should the ideological beliefs of one group have the power to dictate to the rest of the population?

should the needs of a very small community overpower the established rights of half the population?

Should disproven pseudoscience and desperation be enough justification to strip a specific class of the right to be classed on their own, free of their oppressors?

If you think the answer is yes to even one of those questions, then you are (potentially) dangerous. If you know the answer is no and you still have no issue with pushing this shit onto others then you’re either extremely lost or a hypocrite.