is me squirming out of answering this.

Sooo, why did you only now answer the question then? What was the point of this typical little derailment dance that every QT poster has to do?

Yes, misgendering is ok. Is that clear enough for you?

Suuure. So, are you resisting social and legal demands to make misgendering unacceptable, or are you silently approving of it? Doing the latter doesn't suddenly make you unaccountable because it's "people you don't know" doing the work to make these ideas a reality.

They're not my arguments though

Lying, denial and avoidance do not change what you say in any meaningful capacity.

when I did distance myself from them, you wrote me a novel about why I'm not allowed to do that.

Skirting out on responsibility for furthering toxic and irrational views is not distancing yourself from toxic and irrational views. Neither is proceeding to parrot these same toxic and irrational views with merely a disclaimer about how you wish they weren't toxic and irrational. You cannot claim you've distanced yourself from something while continuing to parrot it.