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[–]circlingmyownvoid2 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, but it shows their ability to get things done. It could happen, if they put the same effort into those things as they do with their current endeavors. And I certainly don't believe trans women should be in the general male prison population. They obviously need a protected space. But throwing them in with natal women isn't the answer. You may not be a danger, but there are some very serious criminals who are.

Like I said, dedicated facilities are probably the best answer for prisons but it’s another case of getting someone to spend money for the benefit of trans people. That’s a hard sell. But whatever happens you can’t put a trans woman in a men’s prison. It’s asking for inhuman levels of abuse.

Do you think there's anything at all that could change your mindset? I've struggled with despair at times as well. Maybe not as seriously as you have, I don't know, but I feel like there's got to be a way for you to see the value in yourself. A lot of people find that through relationships and friendships. Or even religion or spirituality can help some people.

Not particularly. I chose a bad life path and had to transition so I don’t really do anything meaningful and don’t really have important connections to people. That’s unlikely to change. It’s not the end of the world but I am insignificant, I’m just working to accept that.

Those bigots are not going to be any friendlier towards people like me or theory than they are towards you.

It doesn’t really matter whether that are or not, you wouldn’t have that “for being trans not for being “ loophole. I’m not saying you wouldn’t be hated in saying there would be a legal loophole to bypass the protections that worked against us but not you. It’s not wrongful if it isn’t illegal. Your proposal protects presentation but not being trans itself so simply by citing the trans status rather than presentation, it is defensible yo fire us for it if being trans isn’t explicitly protected. Do you see the distinction?

[–]worried19 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Well, everyone's insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but that doesn't mean our human lives can't have value. Even if you don't believe in God or whatever. There's still meaning to be found in humans sharing what we can with each other. What about friendships?

Do you see the distinction?

I mean, I guess, but I really think most problems could be solved with a blanket protection for gender nonconformity. In any case, I'm not against trans-specific protection laws, but there has to be safeguarding in place because clearly just opening the barn doors and letting everyone rush in isn't working and can be taken advantage of by bad actors.

[–]circlingmyownvoid2 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I mean I don’t want to harp on sadposting but sure I have friends but I’m not so close to anyone that they wouldn’t be over my death in the time it took to have a sit down dinner.

[–]worried19 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They wouldn't be much of a friend in that case! I don't know, everyone's in charge of their own life. I can say I think there are things you could do to improve your quality of life, but I know it's easier said than done and poor mental health makes a hard job harder. If I could wave a wand and change things for you, I would, but unfortunately I don't have that power. All I can say is that I wish you well and that you still have a lot of life left to live. Things may change, you never know.

[–]circlingmyownvoid2 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Like I said I don’t want to keep sadposting. But thank you.