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[–]BiologyIsReal 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'd rather a respectful man look at a naked photo on Reddit

I doubt such man really exists. If men are watching porn, it doesn't end with them just looking to nude photos. They are watching far more and far worse. It's not like the violent stuff is hard to find. And there is no lack of other men telling each other that it's all "harmeless fun" and that porn is "free speech" and anyone who says otherwise should not be listened to.

[–]worried19[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, it's not like every man is watching the worst stuff out there. My partner and I talked about porn in depth, and without getting into TMI, I know what he likes, and it's not violent. He also doesn't watch anything with men in it, just women by themselves or together. This was back when we were both interested in porn, so around age 19 to 22, we talked about it several times. We haven't had a discussion in a while, but we have discussed all other aspects of sex, and he's reassured me (because I'm so fucking paranoid) he doesn't get turned on by misogyny or violence. I have to trust him on that. I would be devastated to learn otherwise, but I truly do not think it's in his nature. He's never betrayed even the slightest hint of that in our sex life.